tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post1789243364792342772..comments2023-11-05T05:51:57.196-05:00Comments on Baal Tshuva Slowly: Shidduch hiatusDude with hat (aka BTS)http://www.blogger.com/profile/09732331063242686700noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-55574769233929227702009-10-08T13:15:26.206-04:002009-10-08T13:15:26.206-04:00@Tzafra - see, in Brooklyn area there's too mu...@Tzafra - see, in Brooklyn area there's too much of bad influence on kids. The only thing we can do is to try to help them stay away from this influence, but it's not easy at all.<br /><br />@Jacob - why is it grind? It has a lot of fun and good experience too.<br /><br />@Moshe - i agree. Also I often realize that I am lying to myself in some things, trying to find an excuse for something. Both these things are just hard to overcome especially when you are afraid to make a step which you are not 100% sure is right. I happened to speak to one rav yesterday and we'll see, things may change sometime soon.Dude with hat (aka BTS)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09732331063242686700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-720364292690533472009-10-07T20:32:33.955-04:002009-10-07T20:32:33.955-04:00You seem to be mistaken about where in all of this...You seem to be mistaken about where in all of this yetzer hara is. It's not in you doing/ not doing stuff, it's in your idea about how that affects your marriage.<br /><br />If you keep yourself focused on how you do this wrong and that wrong and how you're not 100% perfect and how you don't deserve anything, you'll just end up getting more depressed and doing even less.Ookamikunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01145237927656807738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-43071584371936030842009-10-07T15:05:20.930-04:002009-10-07T15:05:20.930-04:0021-22 is not young, I got married at 22. Its about...21-22 is not young, I got married at 22. Its about being ready for a lifelong commitment. The shidduch scene is a grind. Take it easy and it just might happen on its own.Jacob Da Jewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15181930948956094882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-92071888484475149582009-09-29T03:14:37.726-04:002009-09-29T03:14:37.726-04:00A lto of people get fed up with shidduchim and tak...A lto of people get fed up with shidduchim and take a break - some of them should never have started. (Nothing about you, I'm thinking of a girl I know who said she was taking a break wehn she really shouldn't have ever started.)Tzafrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08185408794673713076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-59096553880095450452009-09-29T00:38:48.395-04:002009-09-29T00:38:48.395-04:00@Altie - good for you! As someone said to me not l...@Altie - good for you! As someone said to me not long so long time ago - may you find it at the <em>right</em> time.<br />It had nothing to do with iPhone - some of these post may even been posted from the web (i copied entire text) - blogger had some issues and was returning errors when you tried to post. I didn't check my blog though so i couldn't see it was there 8 times :) Thanks for letting me know, i cleaned the mess now.<br /><br />@FrumCurious - yeah blogger was broken for some time.<br />I think so too.<br /><br />@r. LS is 21-22 considered to be young today?<br /><br />@fsf - thanks, I'll tryDude with hat (aka BTS)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09732331063242686700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-82632959566395244562009-09-29T00:18:10.947-04:002009-09-29T00:18:10.947-04:00enjoy your hiatus!enjoy your hiatus!frum single femalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01592899863773572708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-63601962652275048892009-09-28T07:03:57.833-04:002009-09-28T07:03:57.833-04:00still, you are very young!!still, you are very young!!rabbi lars shalomhttp://dadoichzlig.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-90173992845791018682009-09-27T17:07:03.832-04:002009-09-27T17:07:03.832-04:00LOL Dude this posted 8 times! Haha
But yeah, good...LOL Dude this posted 8 times! Haha<br /><br />But yeah, good decision.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3070310095349456351.post-83581969485140281222009-09-27T16:17:39.958-04:002009-09-27T16:17:39.958-04:00No girls. Good idea. I made the same resolution re...No girls. Good idea. I made the same resolution regarding guys. And I'm not even in shidduchim yet.<br /><br />Btw, you do realize you posted this same thing 8 times. Cool iphone.Altiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08772248808276734643noreply@blogger.com